Five potential red flags in your partner's home
What do you think is a red flag in someone's house?
Someone's home can tell you a lot about a person, so when looking for a potential partner, this might be the best place to look for any red flags.
For those who are already in relationships, it could also be a good indication of red flags to come or how your partner could approach the relationship.
Founder and president of LUMA Luxury Matchmaking, April Davis, recently revealed specific items that could be red flags in relationships.
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According to IOL, these items could give you insight into your partner's mindset and approach to the relationship.
Here are five potential red flags in your partner's home:
1. Photos of an ex
"If your partner hasn't taken steps to remove images of their ex, it could signal unresolved feelings or emotional baggage," says April.
"They may be clinging to past memories, which means they'll struggle to fully commit to their relationship with you."
2. Extreme clutter
"Clutter doesn't make or break a relationship, but it can signal that your partner is avoiding dealing with personal issues," explains April.
"Neglecting their living space could be a reflection of how they might neglect other areas of their life, including your relationship."
3. 'Pick-up artist' books
Books dedicated to "picking up" a potential partner or how to approach partners and relationships could be a red flag.
"Your partner’s interest in these books could suggest they struggle with vulnerability, openness, or confidence. They may prefer to rely on scripted interactions rather than building a genuine, emotional connection," says April.
4. Expired calendar
"An expired calendar may be a subtle sign of procrastination or even avoidance of upcoming responsibilities," April says.
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This could be true for many other items that could indicate a form of procrastination.
5. A drawer full of takeout menus
"While it's not a deal-breaker on its own, constantly relying on takeout could point to a lack of concern for health or financial planning," says April.
"It's also worth considering whether this shows a disinterest in contributing to a shared domestic life, especially if your partner isn't willing to help with household chores."
Remember, these are all potential red flags, and it doesn’t mean you should leave your partner just because they might have these in their home.
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