He says other girls are hot and I don't care

He says other girls are hot and I don't care

We window shop together and we find it rather entertaining, but some of our friends find it really strange. He tells me other women are hot and I don't care.

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Now, I would never act on it and neither would he, but I've been known to screen grab hot guys on Instagram and send them to him, and he often does the same. When we told friends of ours this, they were completely shocked. 

How could we be so in love and such a great couple with a wandering eye?

Because we have trust. I trust him implicitly and I've never given him any reason to doubt my loyalty. It's also interesting to me to see what he finds attractive, because I often don't agree. 

This causes some serious introspection on my part about what beauty really is and you know what I've discovered? That the most beautiful people are the most kind and confident. 

People may say that it's strange for me not to care that my husband has a wondering eye. The difference is I know that these women will never be what I am to him and I think that, that is the most important thing to remember. 

He will always find someone else attractive, but he knows just as you do, the time and effort it has taken to get this far and how you are the perfect compliment to him in personality, and love language. No one will ever be as amazing and beautiful as you are to him right now. 

Does your partner comment on other people? Does it bug you? Let me know! 

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