Should you announce a divorce on social media?

Should you announce a divorce on social media?

In the age of social media, we announce all of our big steps from engagements to marriages and children, to whoever has access to our accounts. However, should we be announcing our divorces as well? After all, it's not real unless it's on Facebook, right?

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Jennifer Aniston and Justin Theroux announced on Friday last week that they had 'lovingly split' and this reminded me of when one of my random Facebook friends posted an announcement about her divorce.

I remember thinking it was tacky at the time, but it has become far more prevalent on my timeline recently and I'm not sure how I feel about it? If it is considered normal now, at what point do we draw the curtain on our private lives? What is sacred anymore? 

Surely after a break-up, one requires the time and distance it takes to heal and if you post the break-up, are you not celebrating the demise of something beautiful? 

Celebrities have been announcing their splits on social media for years, but more recently, 'normal' people like you and I have been following suit. 

The Infinite Dance. We danced as we moved to life's perfect beat, Here where we always meet, Not needing to think about the steps of our feet. Where it lead us, we Perceived we achieved, Yet it came a time Unable to hear the music we once believed. Spun around and dipped down, Innocent smiles turned to darken frowns. Shattering dreams of how it's 'supposed' to be, I tried to make it work with every part of me. Lessons, Growth and Explanation of heart, To encompass the fear, hurt and what felt like Tearing us apart. Letting go in complete surrender, Allowing ourselves to be moved again, Separate ways may be perceived with pain, Yet it is this undeniable expansion of love we forever Gain, I feel this Beat, this movement, Truly never stop, Forever Infinitely dancing, like us now, on this Hill top. Here I am, Love, known deeper than ever Before, Like you say baby, it's just taken another form. Always with me, never apart, Forever you @buckpalmer are in my Heart. #Infinitelove #infiniteDance #Omkara music 🎶 #Completesurrender #letGoLetLove

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South Africa's very own Khanyi Mbau announced her split via her Instagram.

when Love is not enough? WHAT DOES THAT EVEN MEAN?? Today.. I made peace with a battle that I have lost, i have accepted defeat. My greatest fear and my greatest loss.. letting go of the man I gave my heart too @edwardbillion it has taken so much from me in convincing my self that I am OKAY? Today I chose to face my fears and accept my truth. Today I let go of my greatest pain, LOVE IS PAIN .. for a while now I have been so insecure, so bitter and lonely, AS the wise WOULD say everything has a season!! THE HELL!!, 😖WHAT DOES THAT EVEN MEAN?? 😔My Summer has gone. My first ever experience of being truly in love and being fearless but the very same love has made so small and so sore inside. I have lost me .. today I let go of my future plans, the man I saw as the father of my kids and my future husband.. love of my life.. my best friend!! 😭I am afraid , I am so afraid but I am going to learn how to love me genuinely first before I try and love again. Lord give me strength🙏🏽. #BROKEN #single #afraid #scared 🌪 💔

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The question that remains is for us normal folk, like my random Facebook friend: is it okay to announce a divorce? Let me know your thoughts in the comments section below.

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